Thursday, August 19, 2010

just kidding and ganging up

A time when I was apart of an alliance that made some one else feel bad was when I was in middle school. Some of the things we would do was make fun of how people dressed or if the weren’t good at a sport like football or basketball or even if they would get a good grade on a test. All of those reasons were seen as bad. This really made me feel bad and to this day I wish I never did the things I did in middle school. The reason I would do all of those mean hurtful things to people was because the system was either your with us (meaning the big bad group) or your on your own. If you were one of those people out there on your own that wasn’t good because that could mean you are the next person most likely to be made fun of. I did have the option of not joining bad people groups but I wanted to feel “safe” and not be the kid that gets picked on but instead be the one help picking on the other kid. I wish I could go back and make the choice of not joining that group of kids that picked on others because even if I might be one of those kids that might get picked on I would know that I was one less person contributing to the bully/bullies. The reason I thing people bully one another is because they are not safe with them selves. The other reason I think some people bully is because if you’re a bully you are the toughest person at your school so you don’t have to worry about someone else bullying you because you are the bully. What makes a bully want to hurt there peers I think is that have so much anger in them and it just builds up inside then so they have to take it out on some one ands its not likely to be a teacher so they take there anger out on there peers instead.

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